If you want to move past whatever situation you are in, simply let go, and then direct yourself into the kind of situation you would like. If you want more admiration, make sure that the things you are doing are admirable to the people you are around. If you do not know what those things are, then ask. If you do not want to do what they say, go find people who are admiring what you want to be doing. If that means that you need to change and you do not want to change, then you had better get busy being happy in the situation you are in.-John Morton, DSS
Source: The Blessings Already Are